Hypersexualation of America’s Youth

There is so much that I could say about the hypersexualization of our youth that I am not even sure where to start.  When did kids stop getting to be just kids?  When did they start doing this?

Yes, I know a lot of you are all thinking that this is harmless fun.  And, a lot of times, it is.

I admit, after going to the ballet as a child with my parents, I used to pirouette around the kitchen when no one was looking.  I imagined growing up to be one of those skinny, long-haired, graceful women on the stage.  As a child,  I was seduced by the glamor and the beauty of it all.  And, even at a young age, I was acutely aware that my body type did not fit the role of ballerina.

So… these little girls.  What are they 7? And beyond dancing, what are they doing?  What are they learning? Are they learning that they are objects of sexual desire?  Even if they don’t know that sex is, are the learning that being ogled at is desirable?  Are they learning that gyrating their bodies and wearing scantily clad clothing gets them attention?

In a country where sexual abuse of children is  a real problem, I do worry about societal acceptance of hypersexuality of children: both because of the impact on the children and because of what is says about what we are willing to accept. In the United States 7% of girls in grades 5-8 and 12% of girls in grades 9-12 said they had been sexually abused. 3% of boys grades 5-8 and 5% of boys in grades 9-12 said they had been sexually abused. Girls ages 16-19 are 4 times more likely than the general population to be victims of rape, attempted rape, or sexual assault. (info from Department of Justice Statistics, found here)

Sexual abuse, even at very young ages, has life long consequences (from above).

Effects of Rape

Victims of sexual assault are:7

3 times more likely to suffer from depression.

6 times more likely to suffer from post-traumatic stress disorder.

13 times more likely to abuse alcohol.

26 times more likely to abuse drugs.

4 times more likely to contemplate suicide.

Here is some additional (although some old) information from Prevent-Abuse-Now.com:

Impact of Child Sexual Abuse
It is estimated that there are 60 million survivors of childhood sexual abuse in America today.
Source: Forward, 1993. Approximately 31% of women in prison state that they had been abused as children.
Source: United States Department of Justice, 1991.

It is estimated that children with disabilities are 4 to 10 times more vulnerable to sexual abuse than their non-disabled peers.
Source: National Resource Center on Child Sexual Abuse, 1992.

Long term effects of child abuse include fear, anxiety, depression, anger, hostility, inappropriate sexual behavior, poor self esteem, tendency toward substance abuse and difficulty with close relationships.
Source: Browne & Finkelhor, 1986.

Guilt is universally experienced by almost all victims. Courtois and Watts described the “sexual guilt” as “guilt derived from sexual pleasure”
Source: Tsai and Wagner, l978.

Sexuality is regarded not simply as a part of the self limited to genitals, discrete behaviors, or biological aspects of reproduction, but is more properly understood as one component of the total personality that affects one’s concept of personal identity and self-esteem.
Source: Whitlock & Gillman, 1989.

Sexual victimization may profoundly interfere with and alter the development of attitudes toward self, sexuality, and trusting relationships during the critical early years of development.
Source: Tsai & Wagner, 1984.

If the child victim does not resolve the trauma, sexuality may become an area of adult conflict.
Source: Courtois & Watts, 1982; Tsai & Wagner, 1984.

There is the clinical assumption that children who feel compelled to keep sexual abuse a secret suffer greater psychic distress than victims who disclose the secret and receive assistance and support.
Source: Finkelhor & Browne, 1986.

Early identification of sexual abuse victims appears to be crucial to the reduction of suffering of abused youth and to the establishment of support systems for assistance in pursuing appropriate psychological development and healthier adult functioning . As long as disclosure continues to be a problem for young victims, then fear, suffering, and psychological distress will, like the secret, remain with the victim.
Sources: Bagley, 1992; Bagley, 1991; Finkelhor et al. 1990; Whitlock & Gillman, 1989.

Adolescents with a history of sexual abuse are significantly more likely than their counterparts to engage in sexual behavior that puts them at risk for HIV infection, according to Dr. Larry K. Brown and associates, from Rhode Island Hospital, in Providence.
See Medscape

Adolescents with a history of sexual abuse are significantly more likely than their counterparts to engage in sexual behavior that puts them at risk for HIV infection, according to Dr. Larry K. Brown and associates, from Rhode Island Hospital, in Providence. Inconsistent condom use was three times more likely among youths who had been sexually abused than among the 55 who had not. A history of sexual abuse was also significantly associated with less impulse control and higher rates of sexually transmitted diseases. According to Dr. Brown, “These results suggest two things. Abused kids need adequate counseling around abuse issues. A lot of these kids keep re-experiencing the anxiety and trauma for years.” The second issue, he said, is that “most therapy does not address current sexual behavior” and the anxieties that sexually abused adolescents experience.
Source: Larry K. Brown, M.D., et al, American Journal of Psychiatry 2000;157:1413-1415.

Young girls who are forced to have sex are three times more likely to develop psychiatric disorders or abuse alcohol and drugs in adulthood, than girls who are not sexually abused. Sexual abuse was also more strongly linked with substance abuse than with psychiatric disorders. It was also suggested that sexual abuse may lead some girls to become sexually active at an earlier age and seek out older boyfriends who might, in turn, introduce them to drugs. Psychiatric disorders were from 2.6 to 3.3 times more common among women whose CSA included intercourse, and the risk of substance abuse was increased more than fourfold, according to the results. Family factors — parental education, parenting behavior, family financial status, church attendance — had little impact on the prevalence of psychiatric or substance abuse disorders among these women, the investigators observe. Similarly, parental psychopathology did not predict the association between CSA and later psychopathology.
Source: Kenneth S. Kendler, M.D., et al, Medical College of Virginia Commonwealth University, Archives of General Psychiatry 2000;57:953-959.
Also see review at Medscape

Among both adolescent girls and boys, a history of sexual or physical abuse appears to increase the risk of disordered eating behaviors, such as self-induced vomiting or use of laxatives to avoid gaining weight. Among those at increased risk for disordered eating were respondents who had experienced sexual or physical abuse and those who gave low ratings to family communication, parental caring and parental expectations. In light of these findings, the researchers conclude that “strong familial relationships may decrease the risk for disordered eating among youth reporting abuse experiences.”
Source: Dr. Dianne Neumark-Sztainer, et al, University of Minneapolis, International Journal of Eating Disorders 2000;28:249-258.

Young girls who are sexually abused are more likely to develop eating disorders as adolescents. The findings also add to a growing body of research suggesting that trauma in childhood increases the risk of developing an eating disorder. Abused girls were more dissatisfied with their weight and more likely to diet and purge their food by vomiting or using laxatives and diuretics. Abused girls were also more likely to restrict their eating when they were bored or emotionally upset. Wonderlich suggests that abused girls might experience higher levels of emotional distress, possibly linked to their abuse, and have trouble coping. Food restriction and perhaps other eating disorder behaviors may (reflect) efforts to cope with such experiences. The report also indicates that while girls who were abused were less likely to exhibit perfectionist tendencies (such as making extreme efforts to avoid disappointing others and a need to be ‘the best’), they tended to want thinner bodies than girls who had not been abused.
Source: Stephen A. Wonderlich, M.D., et al, University of North Dakota School of Medicine and Health Sciences in Fargo, Journal of the American Academy of Child and Adolescent Psychiatry 2000;391277-1283.

US Healthcare system missing most mentally ill children and adolescents. More than 7 out of 10 American adolescents with mental health problems are getting no care, according to data released today at the Surgeon General’s Conference on Children’s Mental Health. See Medscape

Thanks to Huffington Post for pointing this out.



  1. I saw this video on Jezebel. There’s no denying that the girls are amazing dancers, but they could have been just as amazing in more clothes and with less provocative moves.

  2. Agreed. I am not denying that they are very impressive. And, no, I couldn’t do what they are doing. And, because I know some troll will probably accuse me of it: 1- no, I am not jealous of them, 2- I am not fat and lonely and thus taking it out on the internet.

  3. I wouldn’t deny the problem is there, though I admit I found the video to have MUCH more taste than I expected given the topic of your post.

    definitely a problem overall, but I try to think about it reasonably in that, knowing how much little girls love to imitate older girls and all that is fashion, they consider this stuff fun and its not necessarily a case of exploitation all the time. so to answer your question, i dont think they have stopped being just kids… cuz essentially thats what kids do (though, one of those hip gyrating things should’ve been reserved for someone at least old enough to legally enter a club.. im dont think its limitless).

  4. As a participant in the dance world… a wearer of costumes such as that at young ages first, I have to say those girls NAILED that dance and I’m soo impressed with their turns. Also, the dance competition world (I suspect that was it) is pretty much a few parents, other girls, their teacher, and gay men. I’m not sure what that audience consisted of, but our competitions were definitely different environments than you would expect.
    But, I see what you mean. Other than sexualization… just think about the eating disorder problem… my dance school didn’t have weigh ins, but the other dance school in my town did.
    In any case–I never felt like I was being sexualized in dance. For me it was a huge confidence builder. My main frustration is that I wanted to explore more layered of expression through performance and got really sick of performing to pop songs such as those. In sum, I totally agree with everything you’ve posted but I think that the video has been taken out of context.

  5. Do you listen to the Stuff Mom Didn’t Tell You podcasts? I do. They talk about topics like this alot! I agree 100%. Kids should be kids. Not tiny sex objects. It is dangerous for them and society I believe.

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